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Divorce in California is called a "Dissolution of Marriage". The court can make orders for child custody, child support, visitation with a child, alimony (spousal support), and property division in both a legal separation and a dissolution. California has 2 forms of divorce, Summary Dissolution & Regular Dissolution.
Legal Separation: In a legal separation, the court makes orders about your property and children, but you stay 'legally' married. If you later decide to go ahead with the dissolution of your marriage, you have to go back through the court process again, and pay court costs a second time. Most spouses in an unhappy marriage prefer to get 'it all over with at once", and file a dissolution of their marriage.
GROUNDS: Although there are 'fault' based grounds for divorce in CA, most divorces are filed simply on no-fault grounds of "irreconcilable differences"; leaving the reason for your divorce between you and your spouse (as it should be).
ResidencyNo matter where you were married, either you or your spouse must have lived in CA for at least 6 months and in the county for 90 days before filing for a CA divorce. After you file, you are free to leave the state; except, if you and your spouse have children together, you can't take the children out of the state of CA without the prior written permission of your spouse. It is a felony/misdemeanor crime if either parent violates the order against taking a child from the state without prior written permission of the 'other' parent/spouse.
DISSOLUTION: In a dissolution (divorce), the court makes orders about your property and children, but also ends or dissolves your marriage. You are no longer married at the end of the dissolution process. You have back the same legal status you had before you were married. You are once again a single person.
Summary Dissolution. California offers a 'simplified' summary dissolution process that doesn't require a court appearance and takes less paperwork. You send in your paperwork and after a 6 month waiting period, either you or your spouse can request a summary dissolution of your marriage. BUT during that 6 month waiting period, either spouse can simply file a form for revocation and end the whole process. If your Summary Dissolution is 'killed' by you or your spouse filing for a revocation, you have to start (and pay for a divorce) all over again. Either spouse can re-file, pay for, and process, a 'Regular' Divorce (dissolution) if your Summary Dissolution is revoked. If you meet all of the requirements set out below and have filed all the right paperwork, and neither you or your spouse files asking the court to revoke the Summary Dissolution; You will receive notice of that your marriage has been summarily dissolved without you or your spouse having to go to court.
California recently enacted 'new' requirements and procedures for dissolutions. Not everyone can file for a summary dissolution and now CA requires additional paperwork making the summary dissolution less 'attractive'.
You must meet all of the following criteria to file a summary dissolution:
DISCLOSURE In 1993, CA enacted mandatory disclosure laws requiring divorcing spouses to disclose everything possible to disclose about their property and finances. Since the disclosure applies to all divorces, even if you qualify for a summary dissolution, you must meet the requirements of disclosure.
A 'regular' divorce (dissolution) may be granted by agreement of the parties about how to divide
assets and debts and the issues of child custody, visitation, child support, and spousal support
(alimony), or by default.
Most divorces are entered as Agreed. Even if your divorce doesn't start out as 'agreed', by the
time your divorce is final, chances are pretty good it will be by agreement.
After you file for divorce, and your spouse is 'officially ' notified by receipt of a Summons, some
built in restraining orders that apply to both you and your spouse and are effective automatically.
Neither you or your spouse can:
take a child out of the state without prior written consent of the other spouse/parent
transfer, sell or borrow against any property (except in the normal course of business or an
'emergency')
cancel, transfer or borrow against any insurance benefiting the other spouse or a child
Property and debts you or your spouse had before the marriage are separate property and separate
debts. Both spouses are responsible for the debts incurred by either spouse between the date you
married and the date you separated. Property, debts, and income of either spouse acquired after
your separation date are their own separate property. In general, you are not liable for the debts
of your spouse after the date of separation BUT, you can be liable for the debts of your spouse or
your children, after the date of separation, IF those debts are for "common necessities of life"
such as shelter, clothing, food and medical costs UNLESS your spouse has signed a waiver of
support (usually done as a part of your paperwork when you file for divorce).
Even after you separate, you are still liable for accounts that are in both of your names. Simply
having your name removed from the account will not relieve you of liability for the account.
PROTECTION OF
CREDITORS:
A divorce court order that orders you or your spouse to pay debts does not affect your creditors.
Real World Example: if you and your spouse buy a car during your marriage and as part of the
divorce, your spouse takes the car (and the payment), but, doesn't pay for the car; the creditor can
and will come after you and or repossess the car, for the debt - you still owe the money no matter
what your divorce papers say. Your ex-spouse can be held in contempt of the divorce court's
order to pay the debt, but you're still liable for the original debt.
BANKRUPTCY: Many divorcing
couples quickly learn a basic rule of math. What you
could afford on two incomes, you cannot afford on only 1 income. Because divorced people often
end up with a debt they can't possibly pay, a divorce is often followed by a Bankruptcy discharging all unsecured dischargeable debt (credit
cards and medical expenses etc.) As a general guide, economists often use a ratio of debt
exceeding 50%-60% of your annual income as being an indicator that Bankruptcy may offer the only viable means to get out of debt and
get a financial fresh start.
Student Loans:Generally, loans
for the education of a spouse are the separate
'property' of that person. Neither spouse (nor their property) is liable for the educational loans of
the other spouse.
PENSIONS: A divorce
(dissolution) must divide any community interest in any
retirement plans "earned" during the marriage. Each spouse is entitled to half of the retirement
plan's value acquired during the marriage. Often, spouses simply waive any right to the retirement
benefits of the other and each party keeps only their own retirement or the spouse whose work
actually 'earned' the retirement may 'buy out' the other spouse as part of the property division.
Military Retirement: Military
retirement and civil service annuities are community
property. Spouses who were married at least 10 years during active duty military service are
entitled to half of the military retiree's pay when he/she retires. Spouse married at least 20 years
also keep PX and commissary benefits.
Spousal support, or alimony, is structured to equalize the living standards of men and women
after a divorce. Alimony is not usually ordered for spouses that are capable of working and
taking care of themselves. Although there are state guidelines to determine the amount of alimony
to be paid, unlike child support, the guidelines are not mandatory. Judges have discretion in
determining alimony, but generally use the following formula:
first, any child support is deducted from the supporting spouse's net income. Next, 50% of the
remaining income after child support is set aside for the paying spouse. Last, 40% of the
remaining 50% not allocated for child support is the guideline for alimony.
If the spouses don't agree otherwise, the judge will determine the date alimony to be of a duration
in consideration of and relative to, the length of the marriage.
1. How much will it cost me to do my own
dissolution?
2. How long will it take?
3. When can I get remarried?
The overwhelming majority of parents divorce by agreement. They decide the issues that affect
the lives of their children rather than 'trust' the court to make those important decisions for them.
There has been a nationwide movement encouraging parents to work together for the best
interests of their children. Joint Custody is now widely recognized by parents, courts and state
legislatures as the 'preferred' parenting plan for divorcing parents (unless wholly unworkable).
Joint Custody allows parents the flexibility to develop parenting plans that provide an active role
for both parents in their children's lives while providing for the care, custody, control and support
of their children. Parents can tailor their parenting plan to meet the needs and special
circumstances of their children and their own work schedules and lives.
Joint Custody is often a 50:50 sharing of responsibility
and participating in the decision making process in matters that
affect the children, with physical custody remaining with one primary joint custodial parent. Much
like the custodial and non-custodial custody arrangements of the past, one parent may be named
as the primary' joint custodian and the other parent is granted
visitation "at all times mutually agreed" and failing agreement,
under the terms of a standard visitation schedule, for example, 1st, 3rd, 10th weekends of each
month, 6 weeks in the summer and alternating holidays. The
primary joint custodian typically retains the decision making
authority to determine the child's primary residence and school;
and to designate such things as the child's primary
physician.
Petitioners with children must include an order for child support in every case, even if the other
parent is unemployed or "missing".
Health InsuranceHealth insurance
for the children must be made a part of a child
support order if insurance is available at a reasonable cost to either parent as part of their
employment benefits. If insurance is not available through employment of either parent.
The special needs of a child and educational costs may also be ordered to be shared by the
parents. The travel expenses of a non-custodial parent may also be ordered 'shared' by both
parents to enable both parents to have frequent contact with their children.
Child support orders and agreements for child support can be changed (modified) at any time to
reflect changes in income and circumstances. Once a year, you or your spouse can require the
other parent to complete an income and expense form to determine if a formal petition for
modification of the order should be filed with the court.
View a complete Standard Visitation
Schedule
Agreed Divorce
In an agreed divorce, one spouse files the papers at the
local court house and gives the other spouse a copy of the filed
divorce papers. That spouse then signs a waiver of official
service of citation which basically acknowledges that they have
received a copy of the divorce papers and that the divorce may
proceed without them having to do anything else or even having to
appear at the final divorce hearing.
Default
Divorce
In a default divorce, only one spouse (the one filing the
divorce) is required to sign anything. One spouse files the
divorce papers. The other spouse is then notified (served) with a copy of the divorce papers by an
authorized 3rd party who mails the paperwork to your spouse.
The spouse being "served" with the divorce
papers is not required to sign anything. All that is required is
proof that they were notified - not their consent. You cannot
force someone to stay married to you.
Missing Spouse
If you don't know where your spouse can be found to be
'served' (notified), and you have made a good faith effort to
locate them, you can still get your divorce. Missing spouses can
be 'notified' by:
a notice posted at the court
house
or;
running it
in a newspaper.The
Process of
Divorce
There are only three basic procedural steps to divorce:
Filing FeesYou pay the same filing fees and court costs that lawyers
pay. The exact amount will vary from county to county. In most counties, the fee is $182 to file a
divorce. Your spouse will probably also end up paying a Response fee of $182
You can call the Clerk's office in your county and they will tell you exactly how much the fees are
in your county
just point-click-print Order
Form
DIVIDING PROPERTY
and DEBTS:
In every divorce, you have to divide your marital community 'estate'- your property and your
debts. CA is a community property state which is defined as: all property, income, debts earned or
acquired by either spouse during the marriage, belongs equally to both spouses - regardless of
which spouse actually earned the income, acquired the property or made the debt.
Alimony
THE MOST ASKED
QUESTIONS and ANSWERS:
The National Divorce &
Bankruptcy Center's fee for doing all the paperwork you will need to file and
complete your divorce is $149 (whether you have children or property or not). It
costs $180 in most counties to file a divorce. Your spouse will probably also
end up paying a Response fee of $180 (even if you agree). The spouse filing the
dissolution will spend approx. $149 + $180 (fees) =
$268.00.
You can turn in your final paperwork just 31 days after notice is 'officially' served on your spouse.
The court will enter your judgemtn and fill in the blank with a date for the dissolution to be final
at least 6 months after your spouse is served the Summons. (You have up to 5 years to finalize
your divorce). All the orders for custody, child support, property division will be effective as soon
as your judgement is entered, BUT, your marriage won't be dissolved until the 6 months is over.
You can't marry until your dissolution is final - at least 6 months after your spouse is served and
the final judgemtn in your case is final.
CHILDREN
Child Custody; Support;
Visitation
Joint
Custody
Joint custody is not necessarily a 50:50 time sharing of
children, although parents are increasingly opting for a near 50:50 time share with the details of
their parenting plan detailed in a marital settlement agreement as a part of their divorce.
CHILD
SUPPORT
Both parents are obligated to support their children. Parents can agree to any amount of support
that is 'reasonable' as part of their written parenting plan or marital settlement agreement. Unless
parents agree on the amount of child support required to provide for their children, CA state
guidelines must be used to determine the amount of child support. The guidelines consider such
things as the current income of both parents and the amount of time the children will spend with
each parent.
Withholding Child
Support From
Earnings
When an order for child support is entered, an order for wage assignment, must also be
entered. Child Support is then withheld
directly from the earnings of the parent who is
ordered to pay child support; much like the way income tax is
withheld. This makes both receiving and paying child support
'easier' and more certain for both parents. Child support is
typically withheld and sent to the state agency authorized to
receive and disburse payments. Once the support has been 'logged'
in to verify that it was paid, the payment is then forwarded to
the parent who is to receive support for the benefit of the
children.
Additional
Support
In addition to supporting their children, and providing health insurance, both parents are
responsible for other necessary expenses such as day care which must be shared equally unless the
parents agree of a court orders them shared in proportion to net incomes.
Raising or Lowering Child
Support
Visitation With Children
Parents are generally free to visit with their children at all times mutually agreed
to by the parties. The Standard visitation schedule provides a
'safety net' for those times when parents cannot agree, which is basically:
Every other weekend; Summer visitation of approximately
4-6 weeks and Alternating Holidays.
About The
National Divorce & Bankruptcy Center
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Pro Se Publications, Self-Help Center, which began in May of 1994
and provides the public with easy and inexpensive access to the
courts without the expense of hiring a lawyer. We help you better
inform yourself about laws and legal procedures so that you can
make your own informed decisions - about the legal actions that
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After you have made your decisions, you will need to
complete the Divorce information form, indicating those
decisions, so that your paperwork can be processed. Once you have
completed the informational
form, simply return it to our office. Your
completed paperwork will be returned to you ready to be filed
within 3 business days (most within 24 hours), along with
procedural information to 'guide' you through the process from
filing your initial documents to walking out of the courthouse a
newly divorced person.
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