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Introduction: Divorce Basics

The modern day divorce is usually little more than a simple clerical matter. By the time you have made the decision to get a divorce the marriage has ended, and all that remains is to take care of the paperwork to end the legal ties. Ending the legal ties, (getting a divorce), often includes dividing up any property from the marriage or just confirming or identifying the separate property of the parties. If you have children from the marriage, under the age of 18, typically custody, child support, and visitation, will be set out in the divorce making it easier on everyone involved - including the children. Clearly spelling out who is to do what, when and under what terms and conditions in the divorce leaves less to be argued over.

It is now the stated policy of most states to encourage spouses and parents to reach a Marital Settlement Agreement and a Parenting Plan including Joint Custody of Children whenever practicable as part of the divorce. Joint custody does not necessarily mean a 50:50 time sharing of the children, although some parents are very creative in working out a parenting plan doing just that, or at least close to it. Joint custody also does not mean that there won't be any child support ordered. Joint custody is in reality closer to a 50:50 sharing of the "responsibility" for decision making about the things that affect the lives of the children.

In the most 'common' joint custody plan, 1 parent has primary physical possession, and the non-custodial parent has the standard visitation of basically every other weekend, alternating holidays, and an extended period in the summer, and pays child support. In the real world, joint custody is typically a parenting plan that keeps both parents actively involved in all of the major decisions impacting the child and gives the non-custodial parent a greater role in the lives of their children.

The majority of divorces are granted by agreement of both spouses. That means that for the majority of spouses, they have reached an agreement about how they want the affairs of their divorce settled and rather than needing (or wanting) someone to 'tell' them what they 'ought' to do; what they really want is someone to simply do the paperwork - according to the way they have decided to settle their divorce, and give them the procedural information they need to process their divorce without hiring a lawyer.

That is exactly what we do. You make the decisions - We Do the Paperwork; and provide the procedural information to 'walk' you through the process from filing the initial paperwork to walking out of the courthouse a newly divorced single person.

Everyone knows that you can represent yourself in a murder trial - we hear about it almost daily on the news; but few people realize that there is no law in any state requiring you to hire a lawyer; you are not required to hire a lawyer to handle any legal matter for you - including your divorce.

The following sections detail the various aspects of divorce, custody, support, visitation, and property division settling the affairs of the marriage.

THE BASICS

Divorce: Divorce Residency

Each state has a residency requirement that requires at least one spouse to live in the state and the county for a specific time period before you can file for divorce or dissolution of marriage in that state. In some states the residence requirement may be 1 day, others up to a year.

Divorce: DivorceIndividual State Laws; specific requirements for residency, grounds for divorce, property division, child custody and support etc. for all states can be found at the individual state sites. Simply select and 'click' on the state from the green menu bar above for state specific information.

Legal Separation

The same provisions in the Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA) see below, can be implemented into a Legal Separation Agreement providing for the division of property, debts, child custody, visitation, child support and alimony. For those who choose not to file for divorce, but need provisions to address property issues and the care, custody and support of their childern, we provide a Legal Separation document service at the same low $149 fee. If you later decide to proceed with a divorce, your separation agreement can be incorporated, in whole or in part, into your final divorce paperwork.

Agreed Divorce

Marital Settlement Agreement

A Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA) gives the spouses virtualy complete control over their divorce and the issues that affect their lives and the lives of their family and children. Your MSA actually becomes your judgment decree of divorce, simply meaning that you (and your spouse) decide everything and have total control over your own divorce. You determine the division of your property and the issues of child custody, visitation and support for your minor children.

An MSA puts the power and control in the hands of the spouses themselves (where it belongs) and gives you much more flexibility, detail and protection in how your affairs will be handled. Your divorce will be done the way you want it handled, not the way the court (or lawyer) decides it "should be" handled. Both spouses are ordered by the court to comply with all of the terms of their agreement, just as with any other court order.

An MSA can be tailored to meet the needs and concerns of your specific situation resolving the issues that are going to affect your life in the future.

Once you and your spouse have signed your MSA, your divorce is essentially complete.

All states urge spouses to settle their own affairs and work out an agreement providing for the division of their marital property and debts and even more importantly, reach an agreement providing for the future care, custody, visitation and support of their children. Courts have come to realize that parents are usually the best judge of what will or won't work in their unique family. Courts much prefer to make decisions for you only as a last resort.

You can enter into an MSA at any time before your divorce is final. The majority of spouses have already made most, if not all, of the decisions about how they want the issues of their divorce resolved by the time they are seriously seeking out help for the final step - the actual formal divorce - the paperwork. Those who already know what they want, often choose to set out the terms of their agreement in an MSA at the beginning of the actual divorce process - when the complaint or petition for divorce is filed. If you have not made all of the decisions before you initially file for divorce, you can work out the details later and enter into an MSA at any time before your divorce is granted.

The flexibility of an MSA allows you to set out essentially any thing you and your spouse can agree on and make your agreement the central feature of your divorce. This flexibility can be crucial when there are children of the spouses. An MSA gives parents the flexibility and freedom they often need to develop a Parenting Plan that will work in their particular case - with their unique family.

Beyond simply setting out your agreement on paper, an MSA has a 2nd, perhaps equally important feature. Ex-spouses are much much more likely to voluntarily comply with the terms of their divorce when they had an active part in deciding what those terms would be. Spouses who divorce under the terms of their MSA are far less likely to find themselves back in court (at great expense) at some point in the future trying to force an ex-spouse to comply with the Court's orders for the division of property and debts, payment of support and issues of custody of and visitation with their children.

While not all divorcing spouses will be able to agree to the terms of an MSA, unless you plan to make your divorce and the enforcement of its terms your career, it's worth at least trying to work out an agreement that you, your spouse, and your children can all live with.

Typical Provisions of a Marital Settlement Agreement

The following provisions are routine provisions we provide in a standard Parenting Plan and Marital Settlement Agreement and are the standard options from our order form. The options are not intended to cover all the possibilities for agreements.An MSA can be tailored to meet your specific needs and choices. They are intended as  a 'guide' to help you better understand the advantage and possibilities of a Marital Settlement Agreement.

PARENTING PLAN for CHILD CUSTODY, VISITATION, AND SUPPORT

CUSTODY OPTIONS FROM THE DIVORCE WORKSHEET ORDER FORM

**Note; The above list of options for developing your parenting plan is not intended to include all possibilities or circumstances and is only provided for your general information and educational purposes; attach an additional sheet to the worksheet/order form detailing any provisions of your Parenting Plan not included in the above list of the most commonly used provisions reprinted here and on the worksheet/order form.

AGREED DIVORCE

In an agreed divorce, one spouse files the papers at the local court house and gives the other spouse a copy of the filed divorce papers. That spouse then signs a waiver of official service of citation which basically acknowledges that they have received a copy of the divorce papers and that the divorce may proceed without them having to do anything else or even having to appear at the final divorce hearing.

Default Divorce

In a default divorce, only one spouse (the one filing the divorce) is required to sign anything. One spouse files the divorce papers. The other spouse is then notified by being delivered a copy of the divorce papers by the Sheriff, Constable or other authorized process server, and in some states by certified mail. The spouse being "served" with the divorce papers is not required to sign anything. All that is required is proof that they were notified - not their consent, and not their signature.There are provisions (see above) for notifying a missing spouse. You cannot force someone to stay married to you.

Missing Spouse

If you don't know where your spouse can be found to be 'served' (notified), and you have made a good faith effort to locate them, each state provides for a divorce to be granted by notice to the 'missing' spouse by publication in a newspaper, or in some states by posting a notice at the court house. If you indicate that the other spouse is missing on the order form, we will provide the necessary documents and procedural information for having the missing party served by publication (or posting).

a notice posted at the court house or;

The Process of Divorce

There are only three basic procedural steps to divorce:

Filing Fees

You pay the same filing fees and court costs that lawyers pay. The exact amount will vary from state to state and in some states such as California, the fee may even vary from county to county. The fee will also depend on whether or not your spouse signs a waiver of formal service of citation (notice) and whether or not you have children. For example: In California the fee is $182 (in most counties); Oklahoma has a state wide fee of $65; Wichita County California, the total fee is $142 for a divorce when the spouse signs a waiver of formal service, and $189 if the spouse has to be personally served within the county and $194 if service is made by certified mail to the 'other' spouse sent from the Clerk's office. You can call the Clerk's office in your county and they will tell you exactly how much the fees will be in your particular case.

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CHILDREN

Child Custody; Support; Visitation

CHILD SUPPORT

Each state has its own 'formula' for determining the amount of child support to be paid for the benefit of the parties' children.   Although the formula may vary, the end result is generally in the same percentage range of the parent who is to pay child support's disposable income. For example: In California, child support is calculated as follows:

Money

While the chart above is specific to California, it will give you a 'general' guide for approximating child support . The above chart does not include the cost of medical health care insurance which is in addition to the above child support. To view the child support guidelines for specific states, select and 'click' 'child support from the green navigation bar above.

Withholding Child Support From Earnings

Virtually every state has a provision for withholding child support directly from the earnings of the parent who is ordered to pay child support; much like the way income tax is withheld. This makes both receiving and paying child support 'easier' and more certain for both parents. Child support is typically withheld and sent to the state agency authorized to receive and disburse payments. Once the support has been 'logged' in to verify that it was paid, the payment is then forwarded to the parent who is to receive support for the benefit of the children.

Visitation With Children

Much like calculating child support, the standard visitation 'schedule' which is presumed to be in the best interest of the children is 'universally' accepted. Although parents are generally free to visit with their children at AT ALL TIMES MUTUALLY AGREED to by the parties, the Standard visitation schedule provides a 'safety net' for those times when parents cannot agree. With some minor differences, generally all states use what is considered to be the "standard" visitation schedule which is basically: Every other weekend; Summer visitation of approximately 4-6 weeks and Alternating Holidays.

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Joint Custody

Sates are now 'urging' parents to work together for the benefit of the children and reach a 'joint custody' agreement. Joint custody is seldom a 50:50 time sharing of children. It is more accurately a 50:50 sharing of responsibility and participating in the decision making process in matters that affect the children. Generally, one parent is named as the 'primary' joint custodian and the other parent is granted visitation "at all times mutually agreed" and failing agreement, under the terms of the state's standard visitation policy. The primary joint custodian typically retains the decision making authority to determine the child's primary residence and school; and to designate such things as the child's primary physician.

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About The National Divorce & Bankruptcy Center

The National Divorce & Bankruptcy Center is a division of Pro Se Publications, Self-Help Center, which began in May of 1994 and provides the public with easy and inexpensive access to the courts without the expense of hiring a lawyer. We help you better inform yourself about laws and legal procedures so that you can make your own informed decisions - about the legal actions that affect your life. We provide services at low cost because we are not lawyers and do not give legal advice. Instead, our service is limited to providing you with self-help information and providing quality legal document preparation.

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